7 principles allow children to learn tolerance! [Abstract] "the way of the master, fidelity and forgiveness", "forgiveness" is Chinese great educator Confucius and fulfills the concept of One principle runs through it all. How to train the baby to learn tolerance, learn to forgive others? At present, the only child "self-centered" awareness of the more serious cases, how to teach children to learn to forgive others? In fact, this is not difficult, the following small for your hard hard, learn 7 strokes easily to help children learn to forgive. The 1 kind and generous adults do the child’s role model, meet a kind and generous contradiction or conflict, regardless of the cost, high attitude, not afraid to eat a little loss, "forgive and forget", so that children receive the infection and education, children can be in the corresponding time to forgive others. 2 honest tell the children to friends should be honest, to help correct the error. Let the child know, forgive him is to give him a chance to correct the tolerance, is conducive to the promotion of friendship. The 3 complement each other to create opportunities for children to have more contact with their peers, from each other in the exchanges, improve interpersonal skills and ability to adapt to society, to develop good character. 4 reflect the causes of persuasion, transfer the child’s attention to the results of the conflict, to reflect on the cause of the review of their own fault, tolerance partners shortcomings and mistakes. [Abstract] "the way of the master, fidelity and forgiveness", "forgiveness" is Chinese great educator Confucius and fulfills the concept of One principle runs through it all. How to train the baby to learn tolerance, learn to forgive others? 5 negative guidance necessary, let the children experience the harm of not forgive others. As always with people over, no one, kids will not fear or love to make friends with you, do not forgive others, also could not forgive others. A bully, arrogant, selfish and heartless bad habits, easy to be isolated in the future into the community will suffer a great deal. 6 distinguish between right and wrong to teach children to master the standard of forgiveness. Distinguish right from wrong, correctly deal with the problems, which should take the practice of forgiveness, which can not be forgiven. The first thing to understand, forgive tolerance is not equal to no principle, not to give up criticism and rebellion. For non personal conflicts without serious consequences, unintentional injury as far as possible, do not care about, to be patient and forgive. The influence of friendship and collective honor, will result in greater damage or intentional acts of vandalism, absolutely intolerable, but not excusable. But to adopt a flexible manner, sincere attitude to criticism, to stop. Avoid rude simple, do not pay attention to the occasion, propriety, or radical rhetoric, domineering. This is not conducive to correct errors, will increase the resistance of the extreme resistance, the opposite role. 7 appropriate to intervene when children encounter conflicts and disputes in the exchanges, mom and dad may be appropriate to give comfort, and help children analyze the reasons for things and find yourself or others wrong, wrong, properly handle. Xiaobian summary: want children learn to forgive and let them recognize the positive significance of tolerance and adverse consequences over; at the same time, but also in daily life, let the children a lot of contact with the different personalities of peers, children to accept differences.相关的主题文章: